Friday, 10 April 2009

Two Years

As I come upon my 100th blog post, so too draws closer the 2nd anniversary of my move to Istanbul and my first wedding anniversary which just passed on the 5th of April.

How time flies.

So much has happened in those two years. Lots of laughs, tears, fun, challenges, frustrations, joy, excitement and anxiety. It has also been a time of learning, understanding, acceptance and assimilation. Two weddings, trips to Australia, Greece, France and Singapore. A new job. A new home. A new car. New friends. New family. New language. New ways of life.

This week though I faced the most difficult challenge since being away from home. I suffered a loss. For me, it was huge. It has tested me in ways that I never knew possible. It has made me ask questions of myself. It has made me look at things from a different perspective. It has made me look at my life and my future in a way I never thought I would have to, ever. But most of all it has changed me.

I am so very lucky to have a loving and supportive husband and best friend who has been here next to me hold my hand and wipe my tears and to tell me everything will be ok.

I have a lot to be thankful for.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

oh oids, i love you xxx

Anonymous said...

love your new banner too, great memories!!!

siobhan said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's at tough times like this that we may question what the hell we are doing so far from home. But it doesn't matter where we are but who we are with.

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V said...

Oids, I have tears reading your post. You are an honest and inspiring friend and I love you very much. xoxoxoxox

Emily ohhhsweetturkey said...

I am sorry for your loss! I am glad to hear you have so much love and support around you! I am also a little over two years in Turkey and coming up on my one year anniversary in June. Isn't life crazy where it takes us. I never thought this would be my life but we both seem fortunate to have found true love! These have been some of the most blessed and hardest years of my life!

In regards to your comment on my "burasi Turkiye" post I also can't get my head around not telling my father-in-law about his cancer but it definetly is cultural accepted as the best path. Different mentalities make it all so interesting!

kendine iyi bak..

Ersin said...

hi,
its been a long while i havent read your blog.i loved the photo on the top and loved this post,too.
see ya!